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		<title>The Drongo Whisperer!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2014 04:31:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>When Mum&#8217;s cat died we were dreadfully sad. He was eighteen years old and was much loved. Then the most amazing thing began to happen. The birds came back to&#8230;</p>
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<p><span style="margin-left: 32px">When</span> Mum&#8217;s cat died we were dreadfully sad. He was eighteen years old and was much loved. Then the most amazing thing began to happen. The birds came back to her garden in their droves! Weavers, Finches, Sparrows, &nbsp;Sunbirds, Rock Pigeons and ordinary Pigeons. Even a baby albino Pigeon!<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">For</span> Christmas, B and I gave Mum three large sacks of grain to feed her birds. When Mum let her dog out in the morning, she used to fill a cup with seed and scatter it on the bird table. The birds knew that the bird table was THE place to be. The little birds didn&#8217;t stand a chance when the ginormous Rock Pigeons were around. They settled their large, cumbersome bodies on the table taking up all the space and enthusiastically devoured the bird seed. All of it. Mum wasn&#8217;t having that! She bought a bird feeder which the Rock Pigeons are too big for. So while the smaller birds cluster around the bird feeder eating to their hearts content, the Rock Pigeons and pigeons devour all the seed that drops onto the ground.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">Everyone</span> is content. Even the little Albino pigeon!<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">I</span> walked over to Mum&#8217;s house as I was being picked up there for gym. I made myself some coffee and took it upstairs to sit and chat. There was a sudden flurry of wings and sitting on the balustrade fence outside her room were four <a title="What is a Drongo?" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drongo" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Drongos.</a> Drongos are common in South Africa.They have glossy black feathers and red eyes. These birds usually get meals the honest way, such as capturing insects in mid-air using their incredible aerial skills. But at other times, like on cold mornings when few insects are flitting around, the Drongos turn to a life of crime.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">When</span> times are hard, this crafty bird can make false alarms to make other animals drop their kill and run from the scene. They then swoop in to pick up the remains! Researchers classify the Drongo as &lsquo;a kleptoparasite&#8217; &#8211; an animal that steals food from another creature that has caught it. But the Drongos sitting on the Mum&#8217;s balustrade, weren&#8217;t set on nabbing someone else&#8217;s food. No, these four mites looked expectantly at Mum. That morning, I discovered another way that they get food for themselves.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">&#8220;Oh,</span> they&#8217;ve come,&#8221; said Mum. She got out of bed and picked up a Tupperware box at the side of her bookshelf and carried it to the window. She opened it to a pile of cheese.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">&#8220;Cheese,&#8221;</span> I exclaimed, &#8220;birds don&#8217;t eat cheese, do they?&#8221;<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">&#8220;Drongos</span> love it,&#8221; was the answer.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">Mum</span> would throw a bit of cheese into the air and the birds would collect it with a swooping dive. It was the most magical thing to watch. One of the Drongos had been tagged with a silver bracelet round it&#8217;s ankle. An &#8220;anklet&#8221;!<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">&#8220;I</span> love this one. I call him &#8216;<a title="What Oubaas means!" href="http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/oubaas" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Oubaas</a>&#8216;.&#8221;<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">I</span> smiled. That was Dad&#8217;s name on the farm.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">&#8220;Watch,&#8221;</span> Mum said. &#8220;C&#8217;mon, Oubaas, come get your cheese.&#8221; She held out the cheese cupped in her palm. He looked at Mum. He looked at the cheese. Then he swooped and landed on Mum&#8217;s wrist. Very delicately he bent and took a bit of cheese. Maintaining eyes contact with Mum he swallowed it, took another piece and then he was off into a nearby tree where he proceeded to put it on a branch and eat it in a more leisurely fashion.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">I</span> stood, totally entranced watching my Mum and her birds. Two mornings later, I went over to find Mum laughing. &#8220;You know how I always sleep with my window open. This morning I opened my eyes to see Oubaas inside my room, hopping along the end of my bed. Tik-tik-tik went his little feet and then he would let out his little rousing cry. He was waking me to come and feed him, the little blighter!&#8221; Mum said, fresh laughter assailing her.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">I</span> get so cross when people say that animals don&#8217;t think. They do. It is just that they think in a different way to man. They think in a way man cannot understand. Have you ever watched geese flying in a perfect V. They know who is going to lead, who the next two are going to be and so on. I think that animals often communicate telepathically. This flying in a V is a prime example!<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">I</span> am sure that many have read <a title="About the book the Elephant Whisperer" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6375561-the-elephant-whisperer" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Elephant Whisperer</a>. A couple of years ago when the author, <a title="How the Elephants mourned Lawrence Anthony" href="http://delightmakers.com/news/wild-elephants-gather-inexplicably-mourn-death-of-elephant-whisperer/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Lawrence Anthony</a> died, somehow his herd of elephants knew. They were hundreds of kilometres away yet they made their way to his homestead and just &#8220;hung out&#8221; there for a couple of days. Then they left. My heart tugs at that.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">Whether</span> it&#8217;s Mum&#8217;s Drongos, geese flying in a V, elephants mourning a lost friend&#8230;animals think. I think that they &#8220;think&#8221; in a finer way than man.<br />
<a title="About Lawrence Anthony" href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/obituaries/9131585/Lawrence-Anthony.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="margin-left: 32px">Lawrence</span> Anthony</a> wrote: <strong>&ldquo;Our inability to think beyond our own species, or to be able to co-habit with other life forms in what is patently a massive collaborative quest for survival, is surely a malady that pervades the human soul.&rdquo;</strong></p>
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		<title>Heaven&#8217;s Creatures!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2014 04:29:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>For eight years, Pandora was the love of my life. Pandora, the yellow, rosy cheeked cockatiel, lived with me in Durban. &#8216;Oh yes, Gaynor&#8217;s bird,&#8217; you are thinking. Yes, she&#8230;</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="margin-left: 32px"><a href="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Pandora.jpg"><img decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-2067 size-medium" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Pandora-300x200.jpg" alt="Pandora" width="300" height="200" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Pandora-300x200.jpg 300w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Pandora-1024x685.jpg 1024w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Pandora.jpg 1840w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>For</span> eight years, Pandora was the love of my life.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">Pandora,</span> the yellow, rosy cheeked cockatiel, lived with me in Durban. &#8216;Oh yes, Gaynor&#8217;s bird,&#8217; you are thinking. Yes, she was a bird but she was far more than that. She was my companion. She shared my life, living the ups and downs with me. I loved her and she was equally just as demented about me!<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">One</span> morning, I woke up and made myself some coffee. Pandora slept in a cage on a chair next to my bed. &ldquo;Morning, Angel,&rdquo; I said as I whisked her cover off. She was already awake and had got off her perch and was sitting on the ground as near to me as possible. I climbed back into bed and drew out something which always sent Pandora into a spin of delighted anticipation &ndash; <a title="What is biltong? An explanation!" href="http://goafrica.about.com/od/foodanddrink/a/biltong.htm" target="_blank">Biltong</a>! She was as mad about the stuff as I am. I had never heard of cockatiels eating meat. I had thought that they were herbivores with a diet made up of seeds and nuts. Pandora proved to be of the Vulture variety of cockatiel. Loved meat, bacon, chicken, sausage and was totally hooked on biltong!<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">&#8220;Look</span> what I&rsquo;ve got,&rdquo; I said bringing out the biltong packet. She knew that sound and would normally start racing up and down her cage in high hopes and expectancy. Only that morning was different. She remained seated on the floor in her corner, her eyes watching me steadily.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">&#8220;Hey!&#8221;</span> I said &ldquo;Look, biltong!&rdquo; I waved a stick under her beak. No reaction. Well, blow me down! I opened up Pandora&rsquo;s cage and placed the ramp down leading onto the bed. Pandora adored my bed. Normally scouted around, pecking at the quilt before finally returning to me. Then she climbed up my PJs and nestled into my neck. That morning Pandora didn&rsquo;t budge. Not normal! Not normal at all. I reached into the cage and drew her out. &ldquo;Angel-Face?&rdquo; I said softly, putting her against my chest. That was when I noticed that her legs didn&rsquo;t seem to be working. Fuh-lip! Instantly I was out of bed, Pandora clasped in my hands. &ldquo;What is it, Pandora?&rdquo; How I wished that she could speak. &#8220;Oh, glory&#8221;, I muttered as I placed Pandora in a comfortable position among my bedcovers and dressed quickly. &#8220;It&#8217;s alright, Angel. I will get you to the vet and she&#8217;ll sort you out.&#8221;<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">Ten</span> minutes later, I left with Pandora cradled in my hands. It is about a kilometre away and I spoke to Pandora the whole time. People gave me the oddest looks. I must have appeared a sight. A woman talking to this bird in her hands while tears streamed down her cheeks. We arrived at about 8.20 and naturally there was no one there yet. &ldquo;We will just sit here and wait.&rdquo; Pandora closed her eyes. &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t die, Angel, don&rsquo;t die!&rdquo; I whispered fiercely.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">On</span> the dot at 8.30 the vet opened the door. I held out my hands and said: &ldquo;My bird&hellip;she&hellip;she&rsquo;s not well.&rdquo;<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">The</span> vet gently took Pandora from me. &ldquo;I&rsquo;m afraid she&rsquo;s dead,&rdquo; she said.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">&#8220;No&#8230;</span> no&#8230; she has just closed her eyes. Hasn&#8217;t she?&#8221; I pleaded.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">She</span> placed a stethoscope to Pandora&rsquo;s chest and shook her head. &ldquo;No, she&rsquo;s gone.&rdquo;<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">Gently</span> she wrapped Pandora in a paper towel and handed her to me. I then walked the kilometre home, Pandora in my hands, sobbing unbearably.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">Gone</span> was <a title="Blog about Pandora laying an egg!" href="https://www.earearblog.com/pandoras-surprise" target="_blank">the little bird who had laid an egg on my stomach</a>. Gone was the bird who heard me mounting the stairs and squawked out her welcome. Gone was the bird who sat on the wash basket while I had my bath and lapped up all the water that came her way. Gone was the bird who loved biltong. Pandora was not a pet. She was a bird that believed herself to be human. Pandora was my close friend.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">I</span> buried her in the garden. I felt as if my heart would break.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">Later</span> I discovered that biltong is a death trap to birds. It clogs up their throats. Much as she adored it, biltong was the worst possible thing for her to eat. In actual fact, I had murdered Pandora!<br />
<a href="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Perdita-and-Spencer.jpg"><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2071" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Perdita-and-Spencer-300x225.jpg" alt="Perdita and Spencer" width="300" height="225" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Perdita-and-Spencer-300x225.jpg 300w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Perdita-and-Spencer-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Perdita-and-Spencer.jpg 1600w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a><span style="margin-left: 32px">Today</span> I share my flat with <a title="Blog about how I came to own Perdita!" href="https://www.earearblog.com/love-child" target="_blank">Perdita</a>, a Wire-Haired Dachshund, and Spencer, a cockatiel who continually launches into <a title="Bridge over the River Kwai theme tune!" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dzWRlTgEB5Q" target="_blank">Bridge Over The River Kwai</a> to get attention! These are my &#8220;children&#8221;. But Perdita is already nine years old. And Spencer is eight. Perish the thought, but these &#8220;children&#8221; of mine will die in the not to distant future. I attended a bible study in <a title="All about Durban" href="http://www.zulu.org.za/index.php?districthome+23" target="_blank">Durban</a> where one of the women said to me quite bluntly: &#8220;Oh no, your pets don&#8217;t end up in Heaven with you!&#8221; A peal of laughter. &#8220;No, Gaynor, I&#8217;m afraid it&#8217;s just we humans in Heaven.&#8221;<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">Of</span> all the egotistical things to say! I believe that she is wrong. There are definitely horses and angels together in the Bible. (<a title="Revelation 6" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation+6&amp;version=KJV" target="_blank">Revelation 6</a>) If there are horses in Heaven, there are other creatures! I know when I look into my &#8220;children&#8217;s&#8221; eyes that they know God intimately. I guess what I am saying, is that animals do have souls. So yes, I believe that I will re-connect with all the animals that I have loved and lost. They have simply gone on ahead of me. We will see each other again.<br />
<span style="margin-left: 32px">Later.</span></p>
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<p>I smiled at this poem written by <a title="All about Rudyard Kipling" href="http://www.poetryloverspage.com/poets/kipling/kipling_ind.html" target="_blank">Rudyard Kipling</a> after the death of his dog.</p>
<p style="text-align: center">*</p>
<p style="text-align: center"><strong>A Dog for Jesus</strong><br />
(Where dogs go when they die)</p>
<p style="text-align: center">I wish someone had given Jesus a dog.<br />
As loyal and loving as mine.<br />
To sleep by His manger and gaze in His eyes<br />
And adore Him for being divine.</p>
<p style="text-align: center">As our Lord grew to manhood His faithful dog,<br />
Would have followed Him all through the day.<br />
While He preached to the crowds and made the sick well<br />
And knelt in the garden to pray.<br />
It is sad to remember that Christ went away.<br />
To face death alone and apart.<br />
With no tender dog following close behind,<br />
To comfort its Master&rsquo;s Heart.<br />
And when Jesus rose on that Easter morn,<br />
How happy He would have been,<br />
As His dog kissed His hand and barked it&rsquo;s delight,<br />
For The One who died for all men.</p>
<p style="text-align: center">Well, the Lord has a dog now, I just sent Him mine,<br />
The old pal so dear to me.<br />
And I smile through my tears on this first day alone,<br />
Knowing they&rsquo;re in eternity.<br />
Day after day, the whole day through,<br />
Wherever my road inclined,<br />
Four feet said, &ldquo;Wait, I&rsquo;m coming with you!&rdquo;<br />
And trotted along behind.</p>
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