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		<title>A Walk, Paint &#038; Unconditional Love!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Feb 2020 19:11:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Her tail wagged once.She looked up at me with hope leaping out of her eyes. That hope curled itself around my heart and I was lost. Her tail wagged again,&#8230;</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-7870" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-3-815x1024.jpeg" alt="" width="815" height="1024" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-3-815x1024.jpeg 815w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-3-239x300.jpeg 239w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-3-119x150.jpeg 119w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-3-768x965.jpeg 768w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-3.jpeg 1003w" sizes="(max-width: 815px) 100vw, 815px" />Her tail wagged once.<br />She looked up at me with hope leaping out of her eyes. That hope curled itself around my heart and I was lost. Her tail wagged again, very tentatively. It was her eyes that caught me though. Vulnerable and full of a kind of expectation: Please&#8230;please..!</p>
<p><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-7872" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-2-300x292.jpeg" alt="" width="300" height="292" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-2-300x292.jpeg 300w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-2-150x146.jpeg 150w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-2.jpeg 395w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />She was an elderly black Labrador called Queenie.<br />&ldquo;Queenie! That&rsquo;s a beautiful name,&rdquo; I said crouched down in front of her, rubbing her ears. &ldquo;Do you feel like coming for a walk with me, Angel-Face?&rdquo; <br />At the word &lsquo;walk&rsquo;, she gave an exciting whine and her whole body seemed to curve into a gigantic series of mad wags. <br />&ldquo;You and Queenie will go well together. She&rsquo;s a lovely docile dog,&rdquo; said the lady handing me the lead.<br />That immediately put my hackles up. Queenie&rsquo;s too, I&rsquo;m sure.<br />Docile! Why did I require a &lsquo;docile&rsquo; dog? Yes, I had a limp but I could limp faster than some people could run. Well, maybe not that fast but I was definitely not a docile individual. I would lay down my life that Queenie was no docile dog! <br />&ldquo;C&rsquo;mon, Queenie, we&rsquo;ll show her,&rdquo; I whispered to my new non-docile friend.</p>
<p>My friend, B, had excitedly shown me this advertisement in the paper: &ldquo;Be a rainbow of colour and join <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pg/Oudtshoorn-Dogs-in-Need-1445656879040158/about/?ref=page_internal">Oudtshoorn Dogs in Need (Odin)</a> at Tantivvey in Blanco for their Odin Mutt Run and 5km Family Colour Run.<br />Participants are asked to wear a white t-shirt and bring a lead to enjoy a 5km run/walk with a shelter dog.&rdquo; <br />Odin is a pro-life organisation that focuses on outreach programmes for animals in need. Their&nbsp;kennels are at the Municipal Pound in Oudtshoorn and Blanco, George. They educate, medicate, rescue and re-home dogs.</p>
<p>I told <a href="https://www.earearblog.com/love-child/">Perdita</a>, my own little rescue dog, that I was leaving her at home.<br />&ldquo;I am taking another dog who still needs to be rescued, out for a walk today. You can&rsquo;t come with me. I will see you later.&rdquo;</p>
<p><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-7875" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-11-253x300.jpeg" alt="" width="253" height="300" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-11-253x300.jpeg 253w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-11-863x1024.jpeg 863w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-11-126x150.jpeg 126w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-11-768x911.jpeg 768w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-11.jpeg 1020w" sizes="(max-width: 253px) 100vw, 253px" />B and I had told our friends about this walk so on that Saturday we all pitched up. I was given the gorgeous Queenie, B had a lovely young playful dog, Snowy, that leaped up at her in his joie de vivre. Everyone was given a dog, with their individual character traits. In the same way, every dog was given a person with their individual character traits! The dogs set off joyfully, almost seeming to drag the people at the end of the leash with them. Everywhere I looked, there were dogs streaming before and behind me. It was this wonderfully endless chain of dogs and people.<span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p>I was singing very softly to myself: &lsquo;How much is that doggie in the window, the one with the waggly tail, how much is that doggie&#8230;&rsquo;<br />I was suddenly sprayed with this dust like purple paint. Glory be, I had totally forgotten about the paint. <br />&ldquo;Careful of my <a href="https://www.earearblog.com/but-but-please-explain/">Cochlear Implants</a>!&rdquo; I shouted. I suddenly remembered that I was wearing a coloured hat that was doing precisely that. It was protecting my Cochlear Implants. Queenie looked back at me reassuringly. Like me, she was sprayed purple. <br />&ldquo;It&rsquo;s okay,&rdquo; she seemed to say. &ldquo;It&rsquo;s actually quite a fun colour. Just enjoy!&rdquo;<br />The pink paint sprayer didn&rsquo;t surprise me when the dust cloud landed on my shirt. By then I was expecting it. The green and yellow followed suit. Queenie was quicker than me and dodged the paint. The purple dog merrily led the pink, purple, green and yellow woman on her way.</p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-7871" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-5-300x225.jpeg" alt="" width="300" height="225" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-5-300x225.jpeg 300w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-5-150x113.jpeg 150w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-5.jpeg 640w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />The laughing sprayed procession began it&rsquo;s walk around the dam. That was when I heard a loud shout behind me. I turned to see that my friend, Jan&rsquo;s Labrador cross Bulbul had decided that as well as being a great day for a walk, it was also terrific day to have a swim. He proceeded to pull Jan into the dam with him. Amidst much laughter, protests and imploring to Brutus to come out, a wet bedraggled friend swopped dogs with Tim. He was being led by a cheeky faced Jack Russell who went quite willingly to Jan. He gave her a few comforting licks and continued on his way leading a laughing Jan around the dam.<span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-7874" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/dog-8-300x264.jpeg" alt="" width="300" height="264" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/dog-8-300x264.jpeg 300w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/dog-8-1024x902.jpeg 1024w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/dog-8-150x132.jpeg 150w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/dog-8-768x677.jpeg 768w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/dog-8.jpeg 1280w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />At the end of our five kilometre walk, we approached the kennels once more. I felt Queenie&rsquo;s steps begin to falter and slow. She did not want her walk to end. I did not want it to end. I imagined what it must be like for her. It must feel like going back to prison. Being caged up, sleeping on a concrete floor and worst of all, being deprived of love. My steps slowed but there was no getting away from it. Queenie and I arrived back at the kennels. I knelt down and looked into her beautiful deep eyes.<br />&ldquo;Thank you for taking me on a wonderful walk, Queenie. I wish that you could come home with me but&#8230;&rdquo;<br />&ldquo;Can I take her now?&rdquo;<br />This young boy looked at me eagerly.<br />&ldquo;You&rsquo;re taking her for a walk?&rdquo; He nodded. &ldquo;Terrific,&rdquo; I exulted. &ldquo;Her name is&#8230;&rdquo;<br />&ldquo;Queenie,&rdquo; he finished for me. &ldquo;And she&rsquo;s getting impatient.&rdquo;<br />I watched the two of them run off. Go, &lsquo;docile Queenie&rsquo;, run. Run like the wind!</p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-7882" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Photo-12-246x300.jpeg" alt="" width="246" height="300" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Photo-12-246x300.jpeg 246w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Photo-12-839x1024.jpeg 839w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Photo-12-123x150.jpeg 123w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Photo-12-768x937.jpeg 768w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Photo-12.jpeg 880w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 246px) 100vw, 246px" />How I wish that amazing institutions like Odin and the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/GRSPCA/">SPCA</a> didn&rsquo;t exist because every animal that needed a home had one. That they all had a special person that loved and cherished them. Suddenly I thought of Perdita, the little dog that shared my home with me. She had been by herself for hours. I must get back to her and take her for a walk. I laugh at her. Despite now being sixteen years old, she welcomes me with these big yelps and then charges from room to room with me chasing her.</p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-7873" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-1-264x300.jpeg" alt="" width="264" height="300" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-1-264x300.jpeg 264w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-1-902x1024.jpeg 902w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-1-132x150.jpeg 132w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-1-768x872.jpeg 768w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Dog-1.jpeg 1031w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 264px) 100vw, 264px" />Dogs love you unconditionally. You have no idea of the love that streams out of them to you. If you are thinking of getting a dog, please don&rsquo;t go off to a pet shop or a breeder. There are so many dogs crying out for love at organisations like the SPCA and Odin. Perdita came to me from the SPCA as a two year old who had just had two puppies. I waited until her puppies were weaned and then joy entered my life!</p>
<p>I wish that those dogs on the walk that day, could be given the same chance to show their love. <br />I know that Queenie would!</p>
<p>Unconditionally!</p>

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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Feb 2014 03:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>&#160; &#160; &#160; Valentines day. &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160;I remember looking with utter envy at my school friends who had received those wonderful, much ached after Valentine Day cards. Oh,&#8230;</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; <a href="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/hearts.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1763" alt="hearts" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/hearts-300x216.jpg" width="300" height="216" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/hearts-300x216.jpg 300w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/hearts-1024x737.jpg 1024w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/hearts.jpg 1280w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>Valentines day.</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;I remember looking with utter envy at my school friends who had received those wonderful, much ached after Valentine Day cards. Oh, how I longed for one!</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;As I grew up, I was the sort of girl that never committed herself to a relationship. That was a tie down. It was something that I didn&#8217;t want at that point. My career was more important! So I flirted my way through my twenties, never allowing a man to get closer than I wanted him to be. I discovered that as a result, Valentines cards never dropped into my letter box on the 14th of February! I ached at that, but what could I do? It was only after <a title="About me!" href="https://www.earearblog.com/about" target="_blank">my accident</a>, when I had my first &#8220;relationship&#8221; with a man that at the age of 45, I received my first Valentines Day card!</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;But what actually is Valentines Day? How did it come into being?</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Valentine was a priest of Rome who was imprisoned for helping persecuted Christians. He was interrogated by Roman Emperor Claudius II. Claudius was impressed by Valentine and had a discussion with him, attempting to get him to convert to Roman paganism in order to save his life. Valentine refused and tried to convert Claudius to Christianity instead. I smile at that. Good on ya&#8217; Valentine! Because of this, he was executed. Before his execution, apparently he performed a miracle by healing Julia, the blind daughter of his jailer, Asterius. The jailer&#8217;s daughter and his forty-four member household (family members and servants) came to believe in Jesus and were baptised.</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;On the evening before Valentine was to be executed, he wrote the first &#8220;valentine&#8221; card, addressed to the daughter of his jailer Asterius, who was no longer blind, signing it &#8220;Your Valentine.&#8221; Since then &#8220;From your Valentine&#8221; is an expression we all know! &nbsp;Julia herself planted a pink-blossomed almond tree near his grave. Today, the almond tree remains a symbol of abiding love and friendship.</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<a href="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/ring.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1761" alt="ring" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/ring-300x225.jpg" width="300" height="225" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/ring-300x225.jpg 300w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/ring-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/ring.jpg 1296w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>Valentine supposedly wore a purple amethyst ring, usually worn on the hands of Christian bishops, with an image of Cupid engraved on it. Probably because of the association with Valentine who became a saint, amethyst has become the birthstone of February, and its thought to attract love.</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Ha! was my initial reaction. I wear a beautiful amethyst ring belonging to my great-grandmother, and a fat lot of love that has bought me! And then I stop and re-think that thought. Hold on! I am surrounded by love. So much of it!</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Just because I don&#8217;t have a &#8220;partner&#8221; doesn&#8217;t mean to say I&#8217;m not loved. Also, where did I get this stupid, misguided thought that Valentines are only to be given to a person that you are in love with. Who said that??? They are meant to be given to show love. Full stop.</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;And so, on this Valentines Day I will be giving a Valentine card to the person I love most in this world &#8211; my Mother.</div>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Dec 2013 03:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>&#160; &#160; &#160; What were your childhood Christmases like? &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160;I&#8217;m so lucky. For me, Christmas was the most magical, enchanting time. &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160;We spent every&#8230;</p>
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<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; What were your childhood Christmases like?</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;I&#8217;m so lucky. For me, Christmas was the most magical, enchanting time.</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;We spent every Christmas with my Mum&#8217;s sister&#8217;s family &#8211; the Nel&#8217;s. There were four daughters in their family, Anne, Margaret, Karen and Judith, plus Liz, Megan and me in ours. Is it any wonder that my brother, Patrick was spoiled rotten! It was a case of finishing lunch and &#8220;Girls, would you clear the table!&#8221;</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&#8220;What about Patch? He must also help.&#8221;</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&#8220;No, leave him. This is girls work!&#8221;</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Can you frigging well believe it? This was during the 70&#8217;s. At that time, feminism had not reared it&#8217;s wonderful and necessary head in the Young and Nel households. I find it so amusing that now in each us &#8220;children&#8217;s&#8221; families the kids clear the table, female AND male alike! The only children that are excused are my children, Perdita and Spencer. A dog and a bird are not all that au fait with clearing the table!</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Those Christmases are filled with memories for me&#8230;..</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;The girls would take it in turns making the mince pies. We would turn the record player on and sing along. The house was filled with records of Christmas carols. Yeah, records not CD&#8217;s. Something that the younger generation have no knowledge of! Records of Bing Crosby crooning White Christmas, and Winter Wonderland, Oh Holy Night, Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer, Please Daddy don&#8217;t get drunk this Christmas.Our favourite though, was definitely Boney M!</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Mum, Libby and we girls loved to sing. And we did. Many an evening was spent with Anne, Margs and on guitars singing. It was so wonderful because we were taught to harmonise and let me tell you we made a pretty good singing group.</div>
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<p><figure id="attachment_1564" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-1564" style="width: 233px" class="wp-caption alignright"><a href="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/mary-and-joseph.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="size-medium wp-image-1564" alt="Joseph aka my sister Liz &amp; heavily cushioned Mary, my cousin Kari" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/mary-and-joseph-233x300.jpg" width="233" height="300" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/mary-and-joseph-233x300.jpg 233w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/mary-and-joseph-798x1024.jpg 798w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/mary-and-joseph.jpg 998w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 233px) 100vw, 233px" /></a><figcaption id="caption-attachment-1564" class="wp-caption-text">Joseph aka my sister Liz &amp; heavily cushioned Mary, my cousin Kari</figcaption></figure></p>
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<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Every Christmas would involve the Christmas nativity play performed by us eight children. Patrick was naturally cast as Joseph which he endured for a few years but finally he had had enough of playing &#8220;the namby-pampby Joseph&#8221;! He had a far better idea. He would play a rough and tumble innkeeper instead and&#8230;he would set up a star that moved all the way across the lounge! And so complete with washing line and pulleys the star finally hopped and jumped haphazardly setting the path for Mary and Joseph. Elizabeth and Kari played Mary and Joseph. And what a Mary Kari was! She was about fourteen months pregnant and this Jesus was a large boy! She was stuffed &nbsp;cushions which slipped and slid, fell out and were re-pushed back in as she and &#8216;Joseph&#8217; &nbsp;followed the star. They finally reached the stable where they were allowed to spend the night. Joseph set about delivering Mary&#8217;s baby. Libby&#8217;s maid, Josie, had had a baby in October. His name was Bonsela, which is Zulu for &#8220;present&#8221; and he made the perfect Jesus! Kari lay there saying things like: &#8220;Oh, Joseph, he&#8217;s coming now and he feels great!&#8221;</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Joseph in turn declared: &#8220;You&#8217;re looking a little pale. I shall go and get you some water!&#8221; (Thoughtful husband, huh!) and Liz then scurried out and returned with Bonsela carried beneath a towel. Kari then threw away the third or was it the fourth cushion saying: &#8220;Oh, much better!&#8221;</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;At which Liz said: &#8220;And you&#8217;ve had a son and you shall call him Jesus!&#8221;</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Bonsela&#8217;s black face grinned happily at us.</div>
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<p><figure id="attachment_1562" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-1562" style="width: 218px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/3-kings.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="size-medium wp-image-1562" alt="I am the king with the 'black' face &amp; fetching orange towel crown!" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/3-kings-218x300.jpg" width="218" height="300" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/3-kings-218x300.jpg 218w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/3-kings-745x1024.jpg 745w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/3-kings.jpg 932w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 218px) 100vw, 218px" /></a><figcaption id="caption-attachment-1562" class="wp-caption-text">I am the king with the &#8216;black&#8217; face &amp; fetching orange towel crown!</figcaption></figure></p>
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<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Anne, Margs and I were always the three kings. Libby had wonderful clothes in which we adorned ourselves. Every year we would have the same argument over who was to wear the beautiful embroidered jacket! (I still lust over that jacket!) Margs said: &#8220;Let us follow yonder star. It will lead us to the baby, the Saviour of the world!&#8221; We three kings then set off across the lounge following Patrick&#8217;s star singing &#8220;We three kings of Orient are&#8230;&#8221; The star was meant to move to above Mary, Joseph and Jesus but instead it &nbsp;got half way there then stopped. And refused to budge another inch! We three kings were meant to finish our song and say: &#8220;Look, the star has stopped over the stable&#8230;&#8221; Let me tell you the star was nowhere near the stable. It was stuck just past the piano and refused to budge! Patch said: &#8220;Hold on, just let me adjust the&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p><figure id="attachment_1568" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-1568" style="width: 300px" class="wp-caption alignright"><a href="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/fairy-2.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="size-medium wp-image-1568" alt="Me and the angel-fairy-shepherd!" src="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/fairy-2-300x263.jpg" width="300" height="263" srcset="https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/fairy-2-300x263.jpg 300w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/fairy-2-1024x899.jpg 1024w, https://www.earearblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/fairy-2.jpg 1280w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a><figcaption id="caption-attachment-1568" class="wp-caption-text">Me and the angel-fairy-shepherd!</figcaption></figure></p>
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<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;At that moment, Megan who was meant to be an angel-shepherd and was dressed in a little ballet tutu, a straw hat and carrying a walking stick came flouncing past us in her own little four year world:&#8221;I&#8217;m a fairy shepherd, I&#8217;m a fairy shepherd!&#8221; she cried. &#8220;Look at me dancing&#8230;&#8221;</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&#8220;The Angel is showing us the way,&#8221; cried Anne desperately.</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;We literally fled across the lounge till we reached a shed made up of draped towels. There, with Megs &#8220;fairy-shepherding&#8221; in and out, the rest of us sang &#8220;Away in a Manger&#8221; with gusto. A rainbow nativity scene in the 70&#8217;s! Joy to the World!!!</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;We had no fireplace so we used to arrange our Christmas stockings under the Christmas tree knowing that Father Christmas would find them there and we would wake in the morning to &nbsp;bulging Christmas stockings at the end of our beds! We also put out mince pies for Father Christmas to fortify himself with. Dad suggested a beer as well, to give him extra strength because he had a long way to go that night. Dad is always full of good ideas!</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Eight highly excited children went upstairs to bed. I hugged myself when I lay in bed that night. I just loved Christmas. At 5.30 on Christmas morning we were all awake but we couldn&#8217;t get downstairs because the adults had locked the gate. So we sat on the stairs and sang Christmas carols and generally made a noise until at 6.30 the adults unlocked the gate. They opened the lounge doors and we gasped in awestruck delight. There were mounds of presents everywhere! Each person had their own little pile. Eight children, four adults and Gran. As I say, the lounge was teeming with brightly wrapped gifts!</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;And playing on the hi-fi was &#8220;God rest you merry gentlemen, let nothing you dismay, Remember Christ our Saviour was born on Christmas Day&#8230;.&#8221;</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;I am so blessed to have such joy filled Christmas memories.Today I watch my nieces and nephew in their nativity plays and I smile at the enthrallment they carry with them. Family is the enchantment giver! Of that there can be no doubt.</div>
<div>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;So to all of you, may this festive season be filled with enchantment, family, laughter, friendship and most of all &#8211; Love!</div>
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