PJ Powers is one of the biggest singing sensations in South Africa.
I met Penelope twenty four years ago, just after my accident. Let me tell you about it.
I was recovering my parents farm. We got a phone call from Maralin Vanrenen asking us if it would be okay if she and a friend could stop off and spent two nights with us on their way to Cape Town. Maralin had directed me before my accident in a cabaret with Elzabe Zietsman called SABS Approved. We had clicked immediately. I liked her. I liked her a lot!
On seeing me again she gave me a warm hug and then stood back. An imposing lady stood before me. She was tall and golden…and…carried a presence with her. I looked into this face that was dominated by a smile that spread across her features. “Hi, Gaynor, I’m Penelope.” And that was how PJ Powers entered my life.
Mum recalls one incident from that evening which I had forgotten about. Apparently Dad offered everyone drinks. Due to my brain damage, I couldn’t recall what sort of drink I liked. So Dad lined up about eight different drinks and I sipped them. I liked them all!
Mum and Dad hit it off with Maralin and Penelope instantly. Dad asked Penelope: “Do you think that you could do a little performance for our workers tomorrow. They would all love it so much.”
“Give a performance? But…but…I can’t! Oh no, Chris, I’m so sorry, but I don’t have my guitar, my band or my back up singers! Sorry,” she finished lamely.
“Look,” Dad said producing my guitar, “surely you can produce a few songs using this!”
Penelope was floored. It was arranged that at about twelve o’ clock the next day PJ would sing a few numbers for our workers. But word obviously spread. We had phone calls from other farms and several bakkies packed with their workers duly arrived before twelve. When Penelope went out armed with my guitar, she had an audience of more than a hundred sitting on bales of hay who greeted her rapturously.
At this stage, I was wearing my first hearing aid. Because my head was still very swollen it was incredibly simple in its design and the sound it produced was very basic, very basic indeed. In fact in reality I couldn’t hear much at all!
I hadn’t bargained for the enthusiasm which greeted Penelope but she seemed quite at ease with her audience. Talking and laughing with them. She sang a number. Yes, she was good, I thought looking at peoples reaction. At the same time, I wanted to rip my hearing device from my head in frustration. I wasn’t hearing, I wasn’t hearing at all! I felt as if I was listening to a person singing underwater four rooms away.
That day I battled with something which I would battle with for the next eighteen years. Hearing music.
Fast forward twenty three years.
Once more it is PJ Powers singing and Gaynor listening. The difference is two Cochlear Implants and the fact that Gaynor can now hear that wonderful voice singing Jabulani, Jabulani Africa…..I too am able to respond with rapture to my friend singing. Firefly, the latest show that PJ is in, is about Penelope finding light in the dark. It was a firefly moment for me too. Hearing her voice for the first time was like having a light shone on something that was previously a dark indecipherable mass.
She has a voice that can alternate between being clear and strong to being raw and at times having a husky timbre. It is filled with soul. I heard my friend tell of the thing that had ripped her psyche apart. And how she had managed to build it together again. Penelope has the ability to make you feel as if she is speaking to you alone. And then she opens her mouth and sings and the sound that rises from her lips is riveting. She was speaking of strength and courage and suddenly she said: “Sitting here tonight is Gaynor Young who has shown such incredible strength and courage over the years. Gaynor I find you totally awe inspiring.”
Penelope, thank you.
PJ spoke of her addiction to alcohol and her fight against this demon. She spoke of the love and fortitude of her sister, Priscilla, who helped her in the banishing of this fiend. I loved PJ for the recognition that she could not fight this battle on her own. That she needed help. And she received it.
That was something I have had to learn over the years. To ask for help. It is a humbling thing to have to do. But very rarely have I ever had a blatant refusal. People want to help. I thank God for that. It’s strange though but as Karl Menninger said: “Love cures people — both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.”
Thandeka (the Loved One) is the name Penelope was christened with at the Jabulani Amphitheatre in 1982.
She has found that love.
So have I.
Press here to see ‘PJ’ performing Jabulani Jabulani Africa…..
Hi. I have come to know you a little during the past few weeks while you were giving Nico and Myself pointers for our Easter play. I enjoy your fresh faced enthusiasm as you discover life anew. Your energy is inspiring. The direction you gave put flesh and bone on what otherwize may have come across resembling talking planks. thankyou for whipping us so gently into shape and sharing your story with me. I feel honoured indeed. Much love, Barbara Benjamin
Gaynor, you and Penelope are two gutsy talents girls! Thank you for sharing your stories xxxx
You have done it again – brought tears to my eys – bless you
I love your comment, Margo! It bought a smile to my face.
Thank you for reading my blogs. I hope that I continue to get a reaction from you!
With a smile I kiss your eyes
What a moving piece and so beautifully written. Ladies both, I salute your courage and your talent. x x x
Thanks so much, Gay. Wish you could see “Firefly”. I know you would love it. Wish I could sit down and chat. Maybe if I come over to England….
Softly I kiss your eyes
Gaynor, this is so beautifully written and truly captures the person and soul of Penelope Jane Dunlop, more commonly known as P.J.Powers or Thandeka.
I can only begin to imagine how beautiful and emotional it was for you to hear P.J singing at the Firefly Show, in Cape Town.
I’ll be reading your blogs…
Carrie, thank you! Yes, it was an incredible thing knowing that I was experiencing Thandeka as others were.
As I said, I loved Penelope’s show….
And great that you are now reading my blog! With a smile I kiss your eyes
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